The same people also hand you a cup filled with
something that caused them sorrow, pain or concern. What is in the cup
of pain or sorrow that each person hands you?
Which cups of sorrow are you unwilling to drink?
Which cup are you willing to drink, or have you
been drinking from?
Which of the gifts that were given to you have
you chosen to use?
Which of the gifts that were given to you have
you chosen not to use?
Prophesies (LBJ)
Write down a positive prophecy someone gave you
about yourself. It could be recent or from years ago.
Who was the messenger?
Has the prophecy come to pass?
Could it still?
Can you recall a negative prediction someone gave
you that actually become fuel for you?
Discovering What
Moves You (RL)
If you were asked to create a TV special about
something that movies you, what would it be about?
What magazines intrigue you most at a newsstand?
What sections or articles most catch your attention?
If you started a business or organization to solve
a need, what would it be?
What issue would you like to see someone write
a bestselling book about?
What subjects would you like to learn about? Go
back to school for? Study for a master's in?
In the past year, what were your favorite causes?
What interests do they reflect?
Who are the people you find yourself voluntarily
getting together with, again and again, for deeper discussions? What are
your deepest discussions about?
How would you use a gift of a million dollars if
it had to be given away or designated for a cause, issue, or problem that
moves you?
Is there any need or problem you believe in so
strongly you'd love to work at it full-time if you were paid well to do
it?
Finding Your Gifts (LBJ)
People say, "Oh, you are so good at____________."
Write down a list of no fewer than 20 talents you
have been given. Pretend that you will be given a $1,000 bill for each
talent you list.
Which of these talents have you buried?
Which talents have you multiplied?
Whom are you blaming for your talents being buried?
Identifying Your Passion (LBJ)
What excites you in or about the world?
What angers you in or about the world?
If you could teach three things to others about
what excites you in the world, what three things would you teach?
If you could convey to others three things about
what angers you in the world, what you convey?
How can you use what most excites you to affect
what most angers you? List at least 10 ways.
Finding Your USP -- Unique Selling Proposition (LBJ)
What did you do for fun when you were a child?
What were your favorite toys?
Your favorite games?
Do you remember anything that came particularly
easily to you as a child?
What did you tell people you were going to do or
be when you grew up?
Are you being or doing anything that resembles
that dream now? If so, what? If not, why not?
Envisioning (LBJ)
Who is living the life you most envy?
Describe what you think that life is like?
Who is doing the kind of work you most wish you
could be doing?
Describe what this work life is like.
If you had only six healthy months left to live,
what would they look like?
What do you want more of
-in your relationships?
-in your work?
What do you want less of
-in your relationships?
-in your work?
Describe in detail your ideal work setting.
Describe in detail your ideal work day.
Describe in detail your ideal co-workers.
If money were no object, what would you be doing
with your life?
What would you do if you were 10 times bolder:
-in your primary live relationship?
-in school/on campus?
-in your work setting?
-in your community?
-in your family?
-in your place of worship?
Imagine it is Monday morning, 9 a.m., three years
from now:
-Where are you?
-What are you doing?
-Who are you seeing?
-What are you wearing?
It is noon, the same day:
-Who are you going to see?
-Where are you going for lunch?
It is now Sunday, 6 p.m.:
-Where are you?
-What are you doing?
-Who are you seeing?
-What are you wearing?
You are now a very old person, walking with a school
child, who asks you, "What are you most proud of in your life?"
You are about to die. What did you accomplish before
you left?
As a result of your having lived, three things
have changed or shifted in the world. What are they?